Spiritual Mentorship

We repeat the same patterns until we get unstuck.

This is what being wounded is about.

Have you ever wondered why you get into the same relationships, make the same mistakes, and it seems like life repeats itself like the film Groundhog Day?

This is not because you are broken somehow or because you are sinful. You are licking your wounds and this is how you are trying to heal yourself, but you don't quite know how.

You're here because you're stuck. But you know what you want to do: write the book, ask for a promotion, do something meaningful. But something keeps stopping you. You think maybe its about your limiting beliefs, managing your emotions, or lack of will power to fight through resistance.

But these are not the problems. They are the symptoms.

What you did not realize was that something happened and you are making sense of your experiences in one way, the only way you know how. It was working at the beginning, but it is not working now. But you don't know how to make it stop, so the cycle repeats itself until something can change. But often it is too painful to experience again.

But the good news is there is a way out.

How This Actually Works

You are a meaning-making machine. Right now, you've organized all of your life experiences into a specific genre: the "I'm not good enough" movie, or the "I'm not safe" movie, or the "I'll never get what I want" movie.

The content of your life, what actually happened, is just footage. The structure is how you've edited that footage into a story. And you've been watching the same genre on repeat.

I don't help you change what happened. That was done and is a part of your experiences. However I help you see that you can change the genre of your story, perhaps from horror to hero. You can take the exact same footage and cut it into a completely different film.

Most coaches try to change your beliefs (the dialogue in the movie). Therapists try to change your behaviors or how you feel (the scenes you act out). I help you change the way you have put it together, the editing itself—the structure of how you made meaning in the first place.

“We will encounter the same people, problems, and experiences until we learn the lesson we need to learn. This is good news it we can make the change, but bad news if we cannot.”

Spiritual Mentorship

Here's what this looks like:

Someone comes to me saying they want to achieve a certain goal and keep procrastinating. A coach would work on limiting beliefs about worthiness. A therapist would work on anxiety management.

I ask them to talk to their resistance. What does it want? What's it protecting? What is it scared of? Usually we discover their resistance has organized their experiences into a "safety through invisibility" structure. They've edited their life as a survival story, not a flourishing story.

In other words, I want you to make friends with what you perceive as an enemy, which is a part of yourself. It wants what you want. You two can work together because your resistance is you, perhaps even a more powerful part of you.

We don't fight the resistance. We befriend it. Then we help them re-edit: What if the same experiences could be organized as evidence of resourcefulness instead of evidence of danger? What if they're the hero who's been preparing for this moment rather than the victim who needs to stay small?

That's structure change. And it happens fast.

What Happens in Our Sessions

We meet once a week for up to 10 sessions. No endless therapy. No dependence. We move quickly because we're working at the structural level, reorganizing how you make meaning.

The arc:

  • Clarity: We identify your core values and let a compelling vision emerge from them

  • Transformation: We work on who you're being, the qualities you embody

  • Resources: We help you see the abundance already within you and outside of you and access it

  • Movement: We befriend your resistance and find the path through

Scarcity vs. Flourishing

We all want to survive and flourish. The problem is that our modern world teaches us how to survive but not how to flourish. This is the scarcity system. Often, you organize your life around what you might lose, what you need to protect, what you're not enough for.

But you are also made for flourishing, for happiness.

You learned to edit your life as a scarcity story. I help you reorganize it as a flourishing story. Same footage. Different structure.

This Isn't For Everyone

You're a good fit if:

  • You're tired of talking about change and ready to actually move

  • You're willing to examine how you live in fear or doubt

  • You want transformation as well as information

  • You value freedom, creativity, connection, enjoyment, and love

You're NOT a good fit if:

  • You have a lot of resistance to doing the work

  • You want someone to tell you you're right and others are wrong

  • You're looking for validation rather than transformation

  • You're not ready to see your resistance as an ally

What Makes This Different

I emphasize the fundamental goodness of the image of God. Everyone does everything with good intent, even the self-sabotage, even the victimhood. Those patterns protected you once. Now we help them work for you.

I don't re-traumatize you with your past. Your trauma matters. However, what matters more is the healing you want now. We don't avoid your story. We just don't get stuck there. You can feel free to share whatever you want or nothing at all. I don’t need to know the your story in order to help you change how you write the next chapters. 

I help you become the things you really want. The resource you're looking for isn't outside you. It's already there. We just need to help you access it.

Ready to Start?

Fill out the inquiry form below. Tell me where you're stuck and what you actually want to move toward. Be honest. If we're a good fit, we'll schedule your first session.

Healing and restoration can be realized.
Happiness is within reach.

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If you're interested in working with me, complete the form with a few details about what you would like to discuss and I will get back with you within 24 hours.

*This mentorship is not a substitute for therapy or psychiatric treatment. If you're in crisis or need mental health care, please seek support from a licensed professional.*